What's It All About?


"The unexamined life is not worth living." Socrates

While you’re here, in this time and in this space, you are beautiful and you are perfect.

You are right where you need to be to get to where you want to go, so start asking yourself where you want to go.

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase." MLK

Monday, January 6, 2025

Welcome to 2025 Blogger

June 22 2024

My wants/needs


  • Emotionally available 
  • Physically available 


Serve me

feed me healthy food

Shower with me

Stretch with me

Exercise with me

SExercise with me


Help me get me back in touch with my body


Touch my body, soft and hard


Appreciate the body I have now


☮️☯️


That is a note from my notepad and because I’m getting lazy again at posting here, I’m going to just add something to Notes and then Copy and paste it here (with the date of course because I can’t copy that part of the note anyway and I couldn’t attach a screenshot) so the idea is that I use my notepad a lot more and the stuff I’m usually putting in the notepad…half the time it’s important and related to life and I know it…so I will just then copy and paste it here. It will be a different sort of record keeping of my life at this point - - 2025 Is pretty fucking good so far considering I’m unemployed. But I have new health Insurance from state of MN, I’m getting unemployment money, O and V are still living with me, or I should say back living with me, and 2025 should be an important year for B and I.


It’s the year Annie turns 18. I was promised that once she turned 18, he would get divorced and we would FINALLY be able to have a real relationship.


I’ve got to see that through and get resolution to it once and for all. For the last time. I’m hopeful things are going to go on my way. I love that man so fucking much and I know he loves me.

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Noire

Noire
She'll be 2 years in 2 months! Time flies!

Things I'm grateful for everyday....

- My family
- My friends, old and new.
- A roof over my head.
- My computer & internet access
- Being employed (even if I don't always like things about my job)
- The public library and the joy of borrowing books with/on/for my Kindle
- That I can walk on two legs, use 2 arms/hands, have ten fingers/toes, can see and hear, etc. (uh, no offense to anyone who is physically challenged)
- Other people's creativity and efforts
- The love of a good man (he IS good)

Current Favorite Quotes

“Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.” - Lao Tzu
"The privilege of a lifetime is to be who you are." ~ Joseph Campbell
"Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some." ~ Charles Dickens
"We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same." -Carlos Castañeda
"..there’s something lovely about knowing that when it’s right, you really know it’s right because you’ve already been through all the wrong." ~ Sade
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~ Theodor Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." —Mark Twain

(This bit not so much as a quote but somethings I wrote down that I want to keep and this looks like a good place to do it)

7-25-07

1. Almost everything comes from almost nothing.
2. The best way to predict your future is to create it.
3. Leap and the net will appear.

Facts of Life (per Sonya Friedman)

  • 1. No one can bring your life to you
  • 2. No matter what you do, someone important isn't going to like it
  • 3. Though painful, rejection won't kill you - it may even lead to growth
  • 4. Every choice means giving up something different
  • 5. Some people aren't capable of giving you what you're trying to get from them
  • 6. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others
  • 7. There are no quick fixes that can permanently change your life
  • 8. Life is on a rheostat, not an on/off switch
  • 9. Some problems cannot be solved - but you can make peace with them